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It takes us years to find out who we are, and years to mold ourselves into what we want to be. It's those years that create the person we are, and those years that pave the path we are to take in our lives. For some,it takes merely a short time to find out the path they want, for others, it takes quite a while, but it doesn't matter how long it takes, as long as you find the true you, and your true self. And when we find out who we are, then we can share it with someone else, and only then can we truly love someone else.

I have big dreams to follow, big things to accomplish and I won't give those up to stay here and get married and live that life, and I was lucky enough to find someone to love me for those things, to know that's never what I'll be, and to love me anyways. I was lucky enough to find someone that is willing to let me go chase my dreams, follow my heart and accomplish all those enormous things I want and still be there when I need him. And it's through him and what he'll do for me to let me chase those dreams, that makes me love him more than I already do and that makes me know that our love is real and will last.

Sometimes love doesn't last, sometimes life just happens. Sometimes moments make us realize what we have when we have it and then it's jut gone. We must figure out how strong our love for someone else really is. We must figure out what it can withstand and what it cannot, and when you can find someone that is willing to let you go to the ends of the earth to accomplish what you want to do, then you know you've found your soul mate.